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Dear Camille:

In this morning's San Francisco Chronicle I read about "Russian Roulette" games and the sport of "barebacking" in the gay community. ("In a Castro district apartment house, an $8 admission fee promises a night of communal gay sex. The only rules: no clothes, no condoms, no discussion of HIV ... At a 'Russian roulette party' set for next month in Houston, a Web posting seeks three healthy men to have sex with five other men. Four of those must be HIV negative, but the fifth is already infected with the AIDS virus ... Two decades into an epidemic that has taken the lives of nearly 18,000 San Franciscans, a new homosexual subculture is emerging: Healthy men are seeking unprotected sex with HIV-infected men, for the erotic thrill of communion with the deadly AIDS virus. For years, AIDS experts have been concerned about the growth of a practice known as 'barebacking,' where condoms are abandoned, usually based on assumptions that partners are both HIV positive or both negative. Now a fringe element, linked by the Internet, is taking it even further. Web sites are offering lists of 'extreme sex' party sites where the prospect of becoming infected or of infecting others is part of the erotic allure.")

I find these developments most curious and would really like your input. How do you explain the rise of these practices?

Meena Moitra



Dear Meena Moitra:

The rebellion by horny young gays against their graying, doom-ridden elders doesn't surprise me in the least. Carpe diem ("Seize the day") has been the pagan rubric of love poetry since the sixth century B.C. Eros will out -- defeating reason, prudence and common sense.

Gay guys playing chicken with Dr. Death are no different from 19th century gents and rogues tempting fate by cavorting through the syphilis-ridden brothels of Paris and New Orleans -- when syphilis, before the discovery of penicillin, could lead to insanity and death. Barebacking Russian Roulette, in its oddsmaking way, is a perverse attempt to impose Apollonian order and number on the Dionysian incoherence and compulsion of sexuality.

Euripides' "Bacchae" tells the terrible truth about Dionysus, who rends and murders even as he brings communion and ecstasy. Those who base their lives on their carnal sexual identity -- as so many gay men have done in the 30 years since Stonewall -- have surrendered to Dionysus and will reap the whirlwind. Nature is a cruel taskmaster, as I have said again and again.

The barebacking trend is a cold douche only to those who promote the sentimental PC view of gays as saintly humanitarians or angels of America. I saw the early signs of gay boredom with "safe sex" even before 1992, when I had a very unpleasant exchange over the matter with a prominent British gay activist (a Foucault idolator, naturally) on the stage of the Institute of Contemporary Art in London. Sexual desire, I have argued in my work, is intensified rather than quelled by boundaries and taboos. Transgression is hot.

As a libertarian, I believe that people have a perfect right to destroy themselves in any way they wish. I can understand barebacking's voluptuous allure and feel fortunate, as a woman, not to be faced with these choices. But gay men should stop posturing as pretty St. Sebastians, martyred by benighted homophobes and the big bad authorities, and reflect instead on Oscar Wilde's hedonistic Dorian Gray, confronting his spiritual failures in his corroding portrait.

Dear Camille:

A state jury in San Francisco has just ordered the Philip Morris Companies to pay $51.5 million to a woman who says her inoperable lung cancer was caused by more than 35 years of smoking cigarettes, primarily Philip Morris' Marlboro brand.

I'm interested in your opinion about such cases. How far will this go? Will victims of heart disease be able to sue the pig farmers who put out the "other white meat" ads? How much of an idiot was the woman for smoking in the face of 35-plus years of evidence that it'll kill you?

Throwing up my hands in Boston



Dear Hands Up:

The clogging of the machinery of the American justice system with these costly, greed-inspired lawsuits should disgust everyone. Cigarette smoking is a voluntary act for which each individual must accept full responsibility. The tobacco industry is merely supplying a product for which there is obviously a public demand, whether the social-welfare commissars like it or not. Soldiers during World War II were already calling cigarettes "coffin nails." The risks of tobacco abuse have been known and widely publicized for decades.

It is my libertarian philosophy that government has no business meddling in private consensual acts of any kind. The juries making these huge awards have been influenced by a hysterical climate created by government agencies and fanned by the media. While long-term heavy use of tobacco has been implicated in a variety of diseases, from emphysema to oral, esophageal and lung cancers, there is no way to prove conclusively that any specific case is in fact traceable to tobacco use.

Lawsuits against corporations are certainly justified when there has been wanton injury to public safety, as in environmental pollution or defective automobile design. Tobacco, which in fact improves mental efficiency and productivity, has become demonized as the Source of All Social Ills. In fact, traffic safety is a far more pressing concern: Too many high-powered cars are being carelessly driven by inexperienced teens and incompetent adults. Driver's education courses have been phased out in many school districts or are offered at prohibitive fees.

Tobacco is less of a threat and drains the health-care system far less severely than the mutilating, homicidal demolition derby of American highways.




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